What Is True to You?

25 March, 2020

It is an incredible period in history, so restricted and really scary at times, yet full of different kind of opportunities. For the first time we are forced to have time and space for things we know we should be doing but somehow, under normal circumstances, everyday life gets in our way. It is time to ask ourselves “What is true to me?”. When all the noise withers away, when all the gossip and busy conversations are no longer tainting our perception, we can really delve deep and get to the bottom of who we are, really. When this is over, and humanity will prevail, so this will be over sooner or later, we can start anew, start from the depth, start with what is truly important and unique to us.

Whether you want to bring more meaning into your life, to change your job, to start a business, to take your current business into a whole new level, or perhaps strengthen your relationship with the ones you love. This, my friend, is a perfect time to delve deep and step by step discover what is true to you.

Declutter. Let go of anything that is no longer serving you, both emotionally/spiritually and physically. It is usually the clutter in our lives that blocks the clarity. The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying by Marie Kondo is a revolutionary book that can help you to completely transform your outer space. The author says that “The key to successful tidying is tackling your home in the correct order, keeping only what you really love and doing it all at once. This incredibly easy method will not just transform your space, it will change you too. You will feel more confident, become more successful and be motivated to create the life you want.” You can find more information and useful tips here: https://konmari.com

Allow your mind to wander. We are so used to operating from our analytical mind – beta brainwaves – that we almost don’t know how to stop. We literally get ourselves into paralysis by overthinking/overanalysing things. If you really need a solution or an insight, allow your mind to wander – move into alpha/theta brainwaves. Children are really good at this! Quite naturally, our mind starts wandering when we are showering, exercising, meditating, working around the house (cleaning, gardening etc.). You simply need to release yourself from overthinking and allow it. Every genius idea was born out of this state.

Learn to connect to your heart. This will absolutely benefit you in every area of your life, especially in these challenging circumstances. Did you know that your heart has its own intelligence? Read The HeartMath Solution in order to “Access the power of your heart’s intelligence to improve your focus and creativity, elevate your emotional clarity, lower your stress and anxiety levels, strengthen your immune system, promote your body’s optimal performance, and slow the aging process.” Check HeartMath Institute’s website for more information: https://www.heartmath.org

Start with Why. Simon Sinek’s Global bestseller is teaching us that in business it doesn’t matter what you do, it matters why you do it. I would say it applies to everything in life. If your why is not strong enough, you won’t follow-through. Why you want to get fit? Why you want to learn Spanish? Why you want to start your business? The why has to be bigger than you, it has to be incredibly compelling and you have to feel an emotional connection to it. I will give you an example.

Why I started Juicy Grape?

For my Mum and my Grandma, they don’t understand how beautiful, loving, generous and kind they are, they once gave their power away and suffered greatly because of it. Also, for all the women, men and children who feel as if they are less, who depend on other people’s opinions and moods, who do not have an unshakeable foundation and ability to say “no”. “No” to world’s demands and to their own ego claiming its share. For all the people who have this budding feeling of possibility of freedom. Freedom from their own limitations, socially applied rules and restrictions, from that subconscious misdefined desire to be a “good wife”, “good mother”, “real man” etc. We are all here to live a meaningful life, to fulfil our soul’s purpose and to serve the way we can best. It is not for selected few – it is everybody’s birth right.

For more inspiration read Simon’s book Start with Why and/or watch his Ted talk: https://www.ted.com/talks/simon_sinek_how_great_leaders_inspire_action

Explore your strengths. It is much easier to build on what you are already good at than simply throwing everything to the wall waiting to see what sticks. For a small fee you can buy access to CliftonStrengths test. It will take 35 minutes of your time and it will give you an overview of what you are really good at. It is up to you whether to go for top 5 or to discover all 34 strengths. Here is the link to UK online store: https://store.gallup.com/c/en-gb/for-individuals/assessments If you are located anywhere else, please make sure you change the location settings (top right corner) to be able to purchase.

Discover your personality type. It will steer you in the right direction. I certainly had quite few “aha” moments reading my results. However, note that not all of the tests out there are that great. Choose carefully not to waste your time and, potentially, money. I found Jung Personality Test to be the most accurate for me. You can get an overview of your personality type free of charge, but I would really recommend paying a small fee (an investment, if you wish) to get access to extensive report because it will allow you to get deeper insight into various different areas (i.e. your leadership style, motivators etc.). Here is a link to the personality test: https://www.123test.com/jung-personality-test/

It is fun to do this work, I promise you! Most importantly, it will give you clarity on what is true to you, perhaps what is no longer serving you, who are you, really, and what that next big step looks like for you.